Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus
10.27 Weekly Drop ✨
Here’s what you’ll find in today’s mix of magic + musings: ⚡️ Energetic Color of the Day Chart, 🌕 Next Week’s Energy Update + 🌟 How best to work with it, 💁♀️ a peek inside Christina’s world, 🔮 Oracle Insights, & 💕 what I’m loving right now.
⚡️ Energetic Color of the Day:
Each day carries its own frequency and colors act like amplifiers for that energy. Wearing, carrying, or surrounding yourself with the day’s color helps you align more fully with its vibe. Think of it as dressing in sync with the universe!
Week of Oct 27th Energy Update:
🌝 Now fully immersed in Scorpio Season, the energy is demanding commitment. It’s the perfect time to use whatever truths you discovered in last weeks emotional deep dive, parllay those findings and take strategic action to build something real this week. The energy offers a blend of laser focus, magical flow, and intensity making it ideal for turning your ideas into reality.
♏ Mars, the planet of drive and assertion, enters Scorpio on the 27th. As one of Scorpio’s rulers, Mars is incredibly powerful here and the energy will take on an intense, strategic focus
It’s going to feel like we’ve taken a 30mg of adderall. We’re getting the gift of stamina and will, so make sure you direct that focus towards complex or in depth projects. There’s no better time than Monday or Tuesday.
♐️ on Wednesday the 29th, Mercury enters Sagittarius. While in the depths of our natty addy phase, Mercury, the messenger, enters the expansive, optimistic sign of Sag. Here’s where we start to break free of the details and start looking for broader perspectives.
We’re all going to be craving more meaning and adventure. It’s not really a time for problem solving, it’s more a time for philosophizing (ngl didn’t even know I could spell that word). It’s also an idea time to look toward the horizon and speak your truth (messenger 😉), but like you mean it- with enthusiasm.
△ It’s also a Grand Water Trine all week, with a peak on the 28th. This is when 3 planets of waters come together. We’ve got Mars, in Scorpto; Jupiter, in Cancer; Saturn, in Pisces.
I urge to you to be super aware of your thoughts! This is when we manifest from the heart, so listen to her this week and trust the flow of it all. The energy will be filled with passion (from Mars), abundances (from Jupiter), and commitment (from Saturn). It’s especially ideal for creatives and people on a healing journey, because you’ll have all the support you need to turn ideas into realities.
💫 This is your time to honor your own power. Go all in on one of your goals and don’t hold back. You will be fully supported by the Universe!
🌟 Try this: Create a Master Manifestation Charm + Commitment Spell
Let’s lean into the Grand Water Trine, which is ideal from moving deep, heartfelt desires into a practical plans, with this Master Manifestation Commitment Spell.
You’ll need:
A crisp dollar bill (or if you’re like me a $2 - available at your nearest bank) - this will represent your resources and material outcome
A green, gold, or silver marker - to represent property and success
A piece of paper - for writing your intentions
1 candle in red or black for passion and power OR green for abundance - to focus the energy
A string to tie off your charm - I like to match the candle color
Cinnamon and basil - to draw in success and speed up the manifestation
To get started you’ll need to identify your goal, which should be rooted in a deep desire you have. Think about one that requires commitment. The type of commitment that will radically change your life. When you think of this goal it should speak to your soul.
Now write it out as a clear, specific, committed statement. Ex: “I am committed to launch my new healing program by Nov 1st, 2025 and I am fully resourced to do so.”. From that write a single word that represents your goal, onto your dollar bill. For my example I would write: Launch or Flow. Other ideas could be around security, abundance, or alignment. Then hold your paper and state the following intention:
“I commit the resources necessary for this sacred goal.”
Sprinkle your intention paper with the herbs and spices, while visualizing the outcome of your goal rushing towards you like a tidal wave of energy. Fold the paper towards you (as you’re calling this in for yourself) and place it beneath your candle. Light the candle and hold your hands over the flame, while visualizing your deepest desires as unshakable, undeniable reality. Declare with conviction in your voice:
“Mars in Scorpio fuels my will. Jupiter in Cancer brings in my well being. Saturn in Pisces locks in my vision. I seal this contract with my heart and my own divine power power. The path is clear, the commitment is made, and the flow of abundance is mine.”
Once the candle has burned down, wrap your dollar bill around the intention paper, using a string. You’ve now created a Master Manifestation Charm. Carry this charm on you or in your wallet for the next 7 days. Spending a little time each day to admire it and FEEL the feeling as if your goal was already here. Think of it as a little psychic tether to the abundance energy of the water trine. Each time you look at your charm, the goal comes closer and closer into your reality.
💁♀️ Personal Update:
Intuition is weird. You have this strong gut reaction to something you think is true, but not actual proof. I remember having an argument with a boyfriend (this is the grumpy one) and saying something along the lines of, “I have a feeling you’re being a shitty boyfriend”. Instead of admitting it, he gaslit me into thinking I was wrong, demanded proof, which I didn’t have. That’s the thing about intuition, there’s no proof until it actually comes to fruition. Until then you look like a little crazy person.
But a woman’s intuition IS NEVER WRONG. Women know! Especially when we are so tapped into our bodies and emotions. One second you’re fine, the next you get this feeling. You don’t know where it came from or why it’s here, but you KNOW something is up. So you lean in. Okay body, okay mind, what are you trying to tell me? Out of the ether comes a ping, a hunch, a lead. It’s just enough to show/tell you what path to explore or person to question. And if you’re really tapped in, you may even get the whole picture.
Intuition is about trusting yourself, connecting into your body, and being receptive to the information that comes in. The more you nurture this gift, the more your intuition talks back.
in·tu·i·tion | /ˌinto͞oˈiSHən/ | noun
the ability to understand something immediately, without the need for conscious reasoning.
Women are these divine sacred Goddesses who operate from a place of nurturing, knowing, and pure femininity. We are naturally plugged into bodies. We don’t need proof to know something is true. We just need that feeling. When have you ever heard a woman say, “I just knew in my gut, but then I was wrong.” NEVER! Why? Because that’s one of the many beautiful gifts of being a woman.
I have a lot of clients that are men and can confirm, they think, act, and speak veryyyy different than women. They rationalize and add logic to areas that don’t make sense or can’t be explained. They discredit the possibility of magic and miracles, because a root cause can’t be determined with an equation. They try to make sense of things that don’t make sense and instead of trusting it with faith, they push it to the side with judgement.
Towards the end of my second and longest relationship (circa 2006) I read the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Things were not going well and I thought we might be suffering from a communication issue (spoiler, it turns out we were suffering from a can’t stand up to your mother issue). The book opened my eyes to the vast differences in communication styles.
You see Martians value power, competency, efficiency, and achievement. Driven by a need to prove themselves and develop their power and skills, Martians have a strong sense of self, which is defined through ability to achieve results. They experience fulfillment through success and accomplishments and often have an interest in objects and things.
Whereas Venusians value love, communication, beauty, and relationship. Preferring to spend time supporting, helping, and nurturing one another, a Venusians sense of self is defined through feelings and the quality of their relationships. They experience fulfillment through sharing and relating, with an interest in relationships over things.
We’re so similar and yet so different. Which is why we’re often saying similar things, but speaking completely different languages. Men take things literal, while women assume poetic license. Him: I’m exhausted vs Her: I’m gonna die. Our language is playing in the same arena, but we’re playing two different sport.
One of my favorites is the saying “I’m sorry”. Men rarely say “I’m sorry” because on Mars it means you have done something wrong and you are apologizing. Women however say, “I’m sorry” as a meaning of expression: “I care about what you’re feeling”. It doesn’t mean they are apologizing for doing something wrong. Noodle on that one the next time you’re in a fight with your partner.
Another favorite of mine is Could vs Would. “Could you empty the trash?” is merely a question gathering information. To a Martian, Could implies the possibility of being able to do something. Venusians use this language to deliver their request softly by indirectly implying ‘would you’. Whereas “Would you empty the trash?” is an actual request and not a question to a Martian.
On Mars it would be an insult to ask a man “Can you empty the trash?”. Of course he can empty the trash! The question is not can he empty the trash, but will he empty the trash. And don’t be surprised if he ignores, delays, or says no after he has been ‘insulted’, simply he feels irritated by such a question.
Isn’t this fun [ahem annoying]. Let’s keep going.
Coping with stress can be a point of contention in some relationships. In Mars, men go to their caves for time alone to be focused and withdrawn. As opposed to Venusians who want to talk out their issues when overwhelmed and emotional.
She will say, “I love and care about you, so I am offering you this help”. But a man will only be offended and hear “I don’t trust you to do XYZ. You are incompetent”. On the flipside, when a man resists a women’s suggestions she feels as though he doesn’t care. BUT to his credit she is probably giving him unsolicited advice and, possibly unrealized, criticism.
This is because Men want to be trusted. They don’t like unsolicited advice or empathy. Martians need to prove themselves and that they are (eye roll) The Man. This is why a man feels supported when a woman communicates in a way that says, “I trust you to handle things unless you directly ask for help”.
Women need supportive relationships and to be ‘heard’. Men want to ‘fix’ the problems, but women don’t always want an offered solution, which completely baffles a man. Why do you want to talk about your issues without resolution?
A man tries to change a woman’s feelings when she is upset by becoming Mr. Fix-It and offering solutions to her problems that invalidate her feelings.
A woman tries to change a man’s behavior when he makes mistakes by offering unsolicited advice or criticism, while inadvertently questioning his abilities.
So what are space aliens to do? As a Venusian, I’ve added this knowledge to my toolkit. It has been invaluable in all areas of life because men are… everywhere. I don’t think duolingo has a Martian, option, but if you can remember these few key differences, you’ll get a lot farther along in your relationships. It’s allowed me to cut through a lot of bullshit and misunderstanding with Martians.
Just to be crystal clear, and in case there is any misunderstanding, I believe intuition ALWAYS comes first. I want to empower women to trust every part of their being. Manipulating men through simple language, comes second.
🔮 Oracle Insights:
What your soul wants you to know: Birth is a sacred portal—an invitation to step into new life. The Hathors remind you that you are a child of the Cosmic Mother, forever held in her infinite love. This card is a tender call to rest in her embrace, to mother yourself and others, and to surrender to your creative flow. If you’re moving through transition or uncertainty, remember: you are deeply supported, watched over, and wrapped in more love than you can imagine. Let the Mother’s presence fill and soften you; let her love remind you that you’re never alone.
The action you’re being guided to take: Lay lines are invisible energy pathways that flow across the Earth, linking sacred sites and echoing the meridian systems of the human body. In Aboriginal culture, songlines trace the routes of the creator beings, holding the land’s stories through song and dance. Many believe that visiting or tending these sacred places activates something within us—and within the planet itself. You may feel called to honor the land where you are, to connect with its unseen keepers, and in doing so, allow the Earth to open to you more deeply, nourishing and protecting you in return.
💕 What I’m loving right now:
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Book: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus
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Spot on!! A womans intuition is so powerful - one of my exs thought I was psyhic or something because I always knew before having any proof when he did something shady or wrong... but of course he made me feel crazy for feeling this way! However, in the end my intuition was right and after having the actual prood I ended things with him immediately. Great life lesson for me tho - it taught me to always trust my intuition with or without proof bc its never wrong :)
Anyways - great post, very relatable!