Why Am I Suddenly So Magnetic? (Spoiler: It's Not a Glow Up)
03.05 Weekly Drop ✨
In today’s mix of magic + musings: Upcoming ⚡️ Energy Update + 🪄 a spell to help alchemize. Followed by 🫶 Overheard in Session, 💁♀️ Story Time from me, 🔮 Oracle Insights from the heavens, 💕things I’m loving right now.
⚡️ Week of March 5 Energy Update:
🌊 Thursday, March 5th the Sun in Pisces makes a trine to Jupiter in Cancer
This is one of the luckiest aspects of the month.
🔥 Friday, March 6th — Venus Enters Aries bringing in the energy of choosing yourself first without guilt. And Venus Conjuncts Neptune adding a mystical, almost otherworldly layer to this energy. Your intuition around love, beauty, and self-worth is going to be off the charts.
Be mindful not to project fantasies onto people or situations. Neptune will often blur the line between what’s real and what you want to be real.
☀️ Saturday, March 7th — Mercury Retrograde Cazimi (Sun Conjunct Mercury)
Mercury will line up exactly with the Sun, and in the middle of a retrograde, it creates a brief window of total clarity. Whatever has been confusing or stuck since Mercury went retrograde on Feb 26 could suddenly make sense.
This is a cosmic download day! Pay attention to messages and ideas that come through and write them down.
🪄 Tuesday, March 10th — Jupiter Stations Direct in Cancer
Jupiter, the planet of expansion, luck, and growth, has been retrograde since 11.11.25, and today it finally turns direct in Cancer. Whatever inner work around your home, safety, or emotional nourishment you’ve been doing since November is about to start showing up in your physical reality world.
This is being called one of the most forward moving days of the year. Don’t be surprised if doors you through were closed, suddenly start to open!
💫 This is your time to stop waiting for the perfect moment and realize you're standing in it. The universe just spent a whole week aligning things in your favor — THE LEAST you can do is say YES!
🪄 Alchemize the Energy: Jupiter Direct Expansion Spell
This spell is perfect to cast between March 5th and 10th to call in abundance, growth, align yourself with the massive forward momentum the universe is handing us this week.
You’ll need: A bay leaf, cinnamon, nutmeg, and olive oil, + a small dish or jar
Instructions: Write 1 word on the bay leaf that represents what you’re calling in
Ex: Safety, Abundance, Love, Freedom, Fun, Overflow, Clarity, Recognition
In your small dish, pour a little olive oil and stir in a dash of both cinnamon and nutmeg.
Cinnamon is a prosperity and manifestation herb to speeds things up. Nutmeg is Jupiter’s herb and it expands luck, opportunity, and growth.
Dip your finger in the oil and anoint the bay leaf. It’s important that you run your finger from the center outward, pulling the energy toward you. As you do this, say out loud (with conviction) what you’re calling in.
Ex: “I am receiving… [an overflow of joy and abundance from the Universe!]” OR “I am expanding into…[my highest timeline where I will reach a new level of potential I never knew existed!]”
Place the bay leaf somewhere you’ll see it daily, like your altar, bathroom mirror, by your nightstand. Let it sit for the rest of the week as a physical anchor for your intention.
I personally like to seal in my spells and will be burning mine on the 10th when Jupiter goes direct so I can release this intention into the Universe.
🫶 Overheard in Session
Last Monday my client’s Uncle Bob came through with a very special message for her mother! I could sense that she was struggling with a decision that related to ‘the other side’. I could feel she wasn’t sure if she’d be able to ‘show up’. Uncle Bob told her not to be scared, because he would be divinely supporting her from the other side.
The decision she was struggling with… to become a death doula.
I literally could not make this shit up! I’m so grateful for this gift!
“Death is a stripping away of all that is not you. The secret of life is to die before you die — and find that there is no death” - Eckhart Tolle 🤍
💁♀️ Story Time:
I’ve been so magnetic lately! I swear every time I’ve left the house (which isn’t often), some guy’s chatting me up. I haven’t been asked out this often IRL within such a short period time, maybe ever, and it’s been really fun.
I was trying to figure it out last night after meeting a guy at the gym (mind you, I had on no makeup, a pimple, greasy hair, and an outfit I wasn’t totally sold on). Is it because I’ve been feeling so spicy lately? Maybe I’m radiating pheromones. Or maybe because I was with one of my closest friends, Anthony, and we were giggling up a storm? Joy and happiness has been know to radiate your aura 10x.
au·ra | /ˈôrə/ | noun
1. the distinctive atmosphere or quality that seems to surround and be generated by a person, thing, or place.
2. (in spiritualism and some forms of alternative medicine) a supposed emanation surrounding the body of a living creature and regarded as an essential part of the individual.
And then I realized... it's probably because I'm not a wound up ball of stress anymore. I finally regulated my nervous system. The wild part? I didn't even know it was dysregulated until this past year. I just thought I had normal reactions to stress.
Let's rewind to my last relationship where I was crying every other week, constantly sick, and feeling like my entire body was inflamed (because it literally was). The lack of sleep, walking on eggshells, being emotionally beat down to a pulp... it was one of those "no more light behind the eyes" situations.
But even after I left that relationship, my nervous system didn't improve much. Now it was my corporate job sending me into a spiral. Have you ever worked in an environment where you're so exhausted from stress, but they just keep pushing you to work harder and longer? The kind of place that says, "We really care about your well-being. We think you should rest, you don't seem to be doing well. Anywho, I need you to do XYZ right away."
It felt like the illusion of care. A total conundrum. We care about you, but we actually care about your output more. That's what broke me. I became less important as a physical, living, breathing human being than an inanimate object. The tipping point? Me realizing I needed to leave my toxic work environment over an argument about a stack of notebooks.
Not that I'm actually less worthy than a stack of notebooks. But the environment I was working in was also operating from a place of total nervous system dysregulation. And none of us even knew it. I mean, we knew it, but not to the extent of how it was physically and mentally impacting us.
It wasn't until months after I left that I started to realize just how fucked up I was. First came the exhaustion. I slept all the time. Well into the afternoon, which is very unlike me. By no means am I a morning person, but years of getting up early for work had reset my internal clock to the point where I could never really sleep past 9 or 10 AM, regardless of how late I was out.
ex·haus·tion | /iɡˈzôsCHən/ | noun
1. a state of extreme physical or mental fatigue.
2. the action or state of using something up or of being used up completely.
I lost 10 pounds effortlessly. The weight just flew off my body and any sugar/carb cravings came to a screeching halt. I also stopped doom scrolling for hours on end. My body had been searching for dopamine and an escape anywhere it could get it.
Small things stopped triggering me as easily. I'm an empath AND a crier who gets very emotional when tired or stressed. Before, it didn't take much to set my tear ducts in motion. As much as I tried to separate myself and compartmentalize, I just couldn't do it. What I didn't realize was that my nervous system was craving emotional freedom. I had this level of detachment from reality that I still can't fully explain, only that it felt like I was living in a movie of my life, not actually living it.
After I left, I realized nothing really upset me anymore. I was no longer in an environment full of other people's stress (over things that really don't matter in the grand scheme of life, it’s not like we were curing cancer). I reestablished a relationship with my own feelings and finally had the mental clarity and conviction to face the emotions I'd been avoiding.
Now, am I telling everyone to quit their corporate jobs? No. But what I do want to bring to the forefront is that you might be living with a dysregulated nervous system and not even know it. There are ways to help regulate your body so you can show up at your best for yourself and the people who matter most to you.
When you start showing up as your best self, things start happening for you. You become magnetic. Opportunities find you. People treat you differently. The way you show up in the world when you're regulated is not the same as when you're frazzled, stressed out, and anxious. People can feel that energy radiating off you and it's a repellant. Like desperation. No one wants to be around you when energy is just... off.
People think you need a magic pill to fix it all, and while I do highly recommend ashwagandha, there are a ton of other methods to regulate your nervous system that don't require much time, money, or effort.
Tapping: EFT Tapping to be exact (or you can just tap on your heart). My Coach Tish has me do this every time I have to post on LinkedIn because it gives me anxiety to be over there. They're not cool like you guys!
Putting on High Frequency Music: Hertz frequencies are like sonic vitamins. Just put them on in the background and let your body do the rest. I have free playlists on Spotify if you want to try.
Journaling: I never understood it until I started doing The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron. It's not some "dear diary" BS. It's getting your thoughts out on paper, especially in the morning. There's something about physically writing with a pen that helps you work through problems and ease your mind of everything you've been ruminating on. It's not about pretty handwriting or perfect grammar. It's about getting the thoughts out of your brain and onto paper so you can create space in your mind.
Moving your body: I know, I know, but going for a walk (especially without your phone) helps create space in your mind and regulates your nervous system. Your body wants to move. It's designed to move, not to sit. We are not made for the type of environment we're currently living in.
I've also been listening to my subliminal audios daily for almost 6 months now and I SWEAR it's changing my brain chemistry! I used to think people being proud or speaking highly of themselves was coming from a place of ego, but now I see it differently. I’M the main character in my life. This is LITERALLY MY LIFE. Why TF would I play a supporting role in my own story?
I get so mad at myself sometimes for not figuring this all out sooner. Why did it take me so long to finally love and appreciate myself? Why didn’t I use the tools and resources available to me? Why did I wait so long? Because I didn’t know I was worthy. But you bet your sweet ass I know now! And I’m here to remind you: You are 100% worthy too!
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🔮 Oracle Insights:
What your soul wants you to know: Karmic Relationships
Orion is a constellation of polarity and unity. Some believe Starseeds from this lineage are incarnated on Earth, replaying karmic relationship patterns. You may be one of them. Polarity creates conflict, yet conflict also offers growth and deeper connection. When we soften our hearts, acknowledge our wounds, and seek understanding, we find common ground. We are all longing to be seen and understood. How can you release defensiveness, see the innocence in others, and choose connection over separation?
The action you’re being guided to take: The Seven Star Sisters
New creations, beauty, and consciousness are longing to be born through you. You are the artist and the midwife, called to surrender to these creations and weave your part of the web of life. Creativity and intuition flow from the same sacred source, and to be human is to be creative. You are being called to surrender to a creative project, whether it's a new business or simply weaving beauty into your home and cooking. Express yourself through the projects that both scare and excite you. Weave beauty back into everyday life, for the world needs the spirit and soul present where creativity thrives.
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