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11.27 Weekly Drop ✨

Nov 27, 2025

In today’s mix of magic + musings: Upcoming ⚡️ Energy Update + 🪄 a spell to help alchemize. Followed by 🫶 Client Corner, 💁‍♀️ a personal update from me, 🔮 Oracle Insights from the heavens, 💕things I’m loving right now.

⚡️ Week of Nov 27th Energy Update:

🌝 I’m REALLY excited about the energy we’re moving into this week. While inner work is often necessary, I personally can only take the intensity for so long. Stepping into this week, you should feel a sense of clarity and momentum to put new found ideas into action.

🪐 Today Saturn, the planet of structure, discipline, and long-term goals, stations direct. Over the past few months the energy was slow and heavy, while we were forced to review out life’s foundation (think personal boundaries, spiritual beliefs, or general responsibilities). But now we’re moving into an energy that supports a stronger sense of self and purpose.

Think of it as getting a greenlight, with a side of momentum. Say yes and commit to long-term ideas or hard work. The foundation has been laid and you’ll now have the discipline and focus to follow through.

☿ Mercury, the planet of communication, technology, and travel, stations direct on the 29th meaning any misunderstandings, tech or travel issues you experienced during this time should begin to clear up.

With clarity and momentum at your back, address any communication issues head on. This is the perfect time to take action towards your goals.

♐️ Venus, the planet of loveeee and money, enters Sag on the 30th, moving us from serious connections to joy seeking expansion. Don’t be surprised if you turn into a little magnet, attracting people into your atmosphere who broaden your horizons and stimulate your mind.

Black Friday is right around the corner, but instead of spending money on things, consider treating yourself to experiences, trips, or learnings. You’ll find this feeds your soul a whole lot more than material possessions.

💫This is your time to step into action. Stop planning and start executing. The road ahead is paved with good intentions and energetic support. It’s time to go after what you want - and the Universe will make sure it happens.

🪄 Alchemize the Energy:

Re/claiming: Self, Power, + Position

You’ll need:

a printed photo of yourself (set on your altar)
a bowl of fresh water (enhanced with fresh or dried flowers of your choice, essential or anointing oil of your choice or even a favorite perfume – plain is also fine)
a candle (white is perfect for this working but you can also use red to represent your personal power)
an incense of your choice (i.e. dragon’s blood)

Arrange the candle, incense, bowl and photo on your altar or working space. Start by casting a circle, if you typically do so - this is only necessary if you think it is. Ground and center yourself or simply sit with your breath until you feel relaxed and calm. Light your candle and incense and begin.

First, you are going to forgive yourself your failures, anointing yourself with the water and repeating the following, out loud, 3 times:

“I forgive myself my failures, each and every one of them, past, present and future.”

Next, you will call back all your personal power that has been lost or taken in any way, again anointing yourself with the water and repeating the following, out loud, 3 times:

“I call back all my power. All that was taken from me, all that I gave away, all that I lost. I call it back to me. As it was, as it is, and as it shall be.”

Finally, bless yourself and give thanks. You will anoint yourself with the water a third time and repeat the following, out loud, 3 times:

“Here and now, ever and always, as an Avatar of the Ineffable, I bless myself. I give thanks to the powers that aid and guard me, I thank them for their help, their protection, and their infinite blessings. As was, as is, as is to come.”

You can change the wording and adapt the spell to suit you, if necessary. Just keep in mind that the intention is to Forgive Yourself, Call Back Your Power and Bless Yourself – past, present and future. The anointing process can be as simple as a few drops or a elaborate as a full body wash. Do what feels right for you. Just remember to give special attention to the head, neck, hands, feet and any area holding pain. Blessed be.1

🫶 Client Corner

This is my why, my purpose, + reason for showing up every day 🥹

“My experience with healing is beyond what I ever expected. I fully believe in energy healing, but I had no experience to attribute that belief to until I met you. I understand now why I have been feeling energetically depleted and with your guidance I now feel supported and aligned. I don’t know how to fully and properly thank you for sharing your gift with me. It’s hard to express that with words when someone has so profoundly impacted your life - thank you from the bottom of my heart and I look forward to working together again in the coming weeks.”

🤍 “It’s a funny thing about life; if you refuse to accept anything, but the best, you very often get it.” -W. Somerset Maugham 🤍

💁‍♀️ Personal Update:

Yesterday I was voicenoting with a friend and she was talking about how it’s sometimes hard to find your voice or speak up for yourself, when the energy in your relationship is unstable. “Salt looks just like sugar, and I’ve been tricked many times.”

You know that feeling when something really resonates with you? It almost strikes a cord in your soul. That’s how I felt hearing this statement. Salt and sugar. What little trickers. As someone with ADHD, who acts before thinking, I’ve mixed the two up a number of times, but never have I thought about the metaphorical representation of hiding in plain sight.

This comparison led me down memory lane of all my past relationships. How many times had I started dating a man only to realize he was not at all who he presented to be. Of course we are all our best behavior in the beginning. In my experience that usually includes, but is not limited to: downplaying fauls, chivalry, hiding flaws, attentiveness, making excuses, going out one’s way to show off, show up, or show out. The goal is magnetic attraction, whatever it takes to secure the girl.

But then one day the facade starts to lift. A little more reality starts to creep in. Keeping up a perfect, temporary act requires enormous energy, and eventually, the effort becomes unsustainable. That’s the thing about facades, they always come down. And that’s when things start to get real.

fa·cade| /fəˈsäd/ | noun
an outward appearance that is maintained to conceal a less pleasant or creditable reality.

I used to foster dogs. I fostered a lot of dogs and it was one of the saddest, yet most rewarding thing I’ve ever done. I fostered dogs rescued from fighting rings and hoarders houses, and had to care for extreme ailments and missing parts, and there were oh so many medications, creams, and vet appointments. When it comes to canines, I’ve seen and heard it all.

I did it because there was a massive crisis happening in Chicago and I simply LOVE dogs. Could I identify each one in the neighborhood by name? Yes. For $1M would I be able to pick their owners out in a lineup? Not a chance.

At this point I’m not sure if I’ve fostered more dogs or had more boyfriends, but that’s here nor there. What I’m trying to say, is that I feel more than qualified to compare boyfriends to our sweet furry friends (we don’t deserve them! The dogs… not the men).

My first foster Scruffy. He used to bite me all the time, but in his defense he was mostly blind + deaf. I’ve had a number of psychics randomly mention the white dog who used to pace - because he’d been keep in a cage his entire life. (I’m getting teary eyed!) + every time, the message is the same… I was the first person to ever show him love + kindness. 😭

When adopting from a shelter, new owners are usually told to pay attention to some key milestones in their new dogs behavior. 2 weeks, 2 months, 2 years. After two weeks your new dog will start to get acclimated to its environment. Depending on their situation, a dog may not display signs of trauma, bad behavior, or pain… yet. Around the two weeks, the pet starts to emerge from its shell and settle into their new environment. At two months they become more confident, allowing their true personality to shine through, as they build trust and security with the family.

In my personal experience, men are typically the epitome of perfection during those first two months. Planning dates, showering you with compliments, and going out of their way to make you happy. Everything’s light and fun and easy. But every once in a while, one comes along who isn’t who he appears to be, and after that two month mark they start to reveal their true nature.

🚩 For me this is usually when the love bombing starts.

What’s a girl to do? Everything’s (seemingly) perfect. You’re so happy, floating through the days with anticipation as to when you’ll see your new found beau again. You live for the moment their name pops up on your phone, finding excitement in learning the mundae details of their life. You’re surprised, shocked, even elated that you found such a wonderful man. It’s all so exciting.

But then… like they always do when someone’s being inauthentic, things start to come out. Behaviors start to surface. Reality comes crashing in.

“The only thing I’m truly good at is appearing to be good at everything.” - Patrick Bateman, American Psycho

Please tell me: how is one supposed to fully discern between a man who’s being genuine and one who’s putting on a show? Especially when it feels so authentic. I’m a healer. I literally read people’s energy and I’ve been tricked multiple times. Are men just that good at faking it or are we women so disillusioned that we choose or maybe even hope to believe them, so we do?

dis·il·lu·sioned | /ˌdisəˈlo͞oZHənd/ | adjective
disappointed in someone or something that one discovers to be less good than one had believed.

I’ve seen women, close girlfriends, who have been so hard on themselves for being tricked. Picking up salt, when they thought it was sugar. Only to find out the reality of who they thought they were dating long after time and emotions were fully invested.

Do you think they’re even aware of what they’re doing, or am I giving the male species too much credit? I would like to believe that people aren’t entering a relationship with malicious intent. We’re all just trying to do our best, right? Then one day realize they can’t meet certain standards, expectations, or keep up the act any longer, and it all comes crashing down.

My personal problem? I’m too trusting. I choose to see the good in people and focus on understanding their perspective. If someone tells me something, I’m going to believe them until their words or behavior tells me otherwise.

Thankfully, now with all the healing I’ve done, I have a high level of discernment. I can smell a fake from a mile away. However, back when I used to foster, back when I had Scruffy (🥹), not so much. That girl. She did not love herself, and when the reality of her new boyfriend started to creep in, she stayed.

I’m a naturally happy person and it doesn’t take much to keep me happy, but even I have limits. I think sweet Scruffy could feel that. Things were not going well in my relationship. I, again, was taking on too much and overcompensating for an unhappy, grumpy boyfriend. He was always in a bad mood, we weren’t able to have sex (a direct reflection of his mental state), and while I was walking on eggshells, my sweet little foster dog decided to inflict Montezuma’s Revenge all over his precious oriental carpet!

That day was a little victory for me. He was gagging and I was giggling. I didn’t even mind cleaning it up, because I could finally read the writing on the wall: this relationship had turned into a big pile of dog shit.

Dog shit | /dôɡ/ /SHit/ | noun
Worthless or low-quality items/ideas. Used as a derogatory term for something considered rubbish, terrible, or very bad

Did I have the confidence to break up with him then and there? No. Did I say for a few more months, because I’d become so fully entrenched in this relationship that I’d lost part of myself? Yes. Will I ever let that happen again? You can bet your sweet ass I won’t.

🔮 Oracle Insights:

What your soul wants you to know:

At some point, we were all part of a soul cluster, a cosmic family that split so each soul could explore itself individually. Those from your cluster are your Star family, souls woven from the same celestial cloth who often incarnate together to anchor a shared frequency. You recognize them instantly through familiarity, comfort, and the sense of remembering someone you’ve only just met. Time bends with them and you feel more like yourself. They can feel like a mirror, and you’ll help them instinctively because it’s part of your path. When one transitions, it creates a deep soul ache no matter how long you knew them. Consider who in your life carries that Star family resonance.

The action you’re being guided to take:

The ancients understood our deep connection to the stars, building pyramids and temples aligned with the cosmos. That same wisdom is available to you now. You’re being called to listen with your ancient heart, tap into the part of you that remembers, and let old truths rise. This is an invitation to shift your perspective, break familiar patterns, and follow the creative sparks that appear when you do. You’re here to revive soul memories and ancient transmissions that can help restore harmony on Earth once again.